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എത്രയോ കുങ്കുമ സന്ധ്യകള്‍ പിന്നിട്ടു
നാമെത്തി നില്ക്കുമീ ശ്യാമാംബരത്തിന്‍ മാറില്‍
ദൂരമെത്രയോ ഇനിയും നാം പിന്നിടാനിരിക്കുന്നു
എങ്കിലും നീ മാത്രം തളര്‍ന്നതില്ലാ സഖീ
നിന്നിലെ നന്മകള്‍ പൂരിതമാക്കുമീ
ഓര്‍മ്മകള്‍ ഇന്നുമനുസ്യുതമായ് പെയ്യുന്നൂ
കാലമാം നദീ തീരത്തു ഏകാന്തപധികരാം
നമ്മള്‍ കൈ കോര്‍ത്ത്‌ പറന്നകലെ ചെറുപച്ച
തേടി ഗ്രാമാന്തരങ്ങള്‍ തോറും അലഞ്ഞതെത്രയോ കാലങ്ങള്‍
കുഞ്ഞു മനസിന്‍റെ മയില്പീലിതുതുണ്ടുകളെത്രയോ
പെറ്റിരുന്ന നമ്മുടെ ബാല്യമിന്നകലെ മറഞ്ഞു പോയ്
കാലമാം കലാകാരന്‍ നമ്മളില്‍ ചാലിച്ച നിറക്കൂട്ടാല്‍
ചിത്രമെഴുതിയതുമെപ്പഴോ....
അമ്പലപ്പറമ്പിലെ ഇലക്കൊഴിഞ്ഞ ആല്ച്ചുവട്ടിലിരുന്നു
തമ്മില്‍ കൊച്ചുദുഖങ്ങള്‍ കയ്മാറിയിരുന്നതും
തെളിവെള്ളമതില്‍ നീന്തി തുടിച്ചിട്ടോടി എത്തും
മീനിനെ തോര്‍ത്തുമായോടി പിടിക്കാന്‍ നടന്നതും
തോടിന്‍റെ വക്കതെചെറു മാവിന്‍റെ ചുവട്ടില്
കലപില വെച്ച്ചോടിനടന്നതും ....
പൂവേ പൊലി പാടിയോടി നടന്നു നമ്മളെത്ര
പുക്കള്‍ പറിച്ചോണപുക്കളമെഴുവതും
ഓര്‍മകളില്‍ എന്നും ഹരിതാഭമായിരിപ്പൂ ...
മറന്നുവോ തോഴീ ഈ തിരുമധുരം
ഓര്‍മകളിലൂടെ ഇനിയും നുകരട്ടെ ഞാന്‍...

Feelings of Rain

I feel rain is like a woman,


When she is happy, it drizzles,


When she is sad, it is like about to rain,


but it will not rain....




When she is in a bad mood, it rains


with storms, and thunders....


When she is calm, it rains


with a breeze....

Life Just like that

Where there are no limits for dreams,


Where there is sky is the limit for action,


There lies spirit of the true life...


There is the real flavor of life...


That I realize this very late..




Life is full of accidents.... starts without our knowledge,


Ends without our knowledge...


We don't have any control on these,


Then why do we concern about these....


Flew like stars in the Milky Way...


Where there are no boundaries...


Just like that....

Depression - Ways to recover

Hey Friends,

I am back, After a lazy weekend,here comes Monday again... I sometimes wonder why this weekend always comes like a sunny breezy morning.... Then comes Monday like a cloudy moody mornings... I feel this is the cycle of life.

O.K Let me come to the point... Depression. Cure is what everyone always look forward. I can suggest many ways.

1) Do enough exercise...Either Yoga, aerobics ,dance or whatever....
2) Do their own interesting hobbies.....
3) Keep engage in some or other thing so that mind does not have rest..
4) Listen to favorite music ....
5) Meet friends and relatives....
6) Try to recollect pleasant memories frequently...

Then most important thing is try to find happiness in others face. Then you automatically comes out of depression..

I strongly feel Ladies are more vulnerable to this most dangerous illness....
Wake up ladies... we have to do so many things...

Pet fishes - Guidelines

Hi Friends,

I happen to start hobby of bringing up pet fishes. I got Tiger barb, Fighter fish (Betta) and Red sword tail fish. Initially we can start with about 3.5 ltr bowl type aquarium. This will cost around 200 to 250 package which includes the Fish feed, fish bowl, and 4 fishes. Betta will cost from Rs.40 to 100 depends upon the size, beauty etc.,

Initially when we get them, let them adjust to the new environment. That means, we should give only two grains of fish feed. Otherwise there is a danger of lose them. We change the water 1/3 daily and twice in a week completely. We should add rock salt 1 to 2 tsp into 3 ltr water which make the fish healthy. After 3 to 4 days we can increase the no. of feed to 2 in morning and 2 in the evening.

We can introduce sea sand, pebbles, water plants etc into the aquarium.

Things in and around Kasthurinagar, Bangalore

Hi friends,

I surprised to see that Kasthurinagar have everything right from Pet shop,Veterinary doctor, gym, yoga centre. I happen to visit one pet shop in 5th main 5 c cross, where i found items are for reasonable rates. Its name is Rakhy's Pet shop.

On that road itself there is St. Jeeyars institutions of education. (school for beginners !). In the Kasthurinagar Junction you find Calcutta Victoria Chat, which is very famous. Next to this there is a horticulture society where we can get vegetables for cheaper rate.

In the 2nd main, opposite to the Swathy Medicals lane, we can find the Sri sri Ravishankar yoga centre. Further in the same road, we see Presidency school, New horizon college, and Safal.

Near the water tank we can found the Nightingale centre of aged and alzheimer's.

Depression - Symptoms

Hi Friends,

I would like to talk to you about the symptoms of Depression. The whole world is affected due to depression. That is economic depression. But i am not going to talk about that. My topic is the depression affects the human mind. Human beings mind is a wonderful Godgift. But due to several reasons people could get depression. The mostly seen symptoms are tendency to cry, Like to sit alone. Lazyness, Lack of concentration. Memory lose, Lose of interest in every thing etc.

My observation is some medicins may stimulate depression in people who may have that already.Ex Emergency Contraceptive pills.

Toys for One year old baby

Hi friends,

I would like to discuss toys to be introduce to our newborn babies from time to time. Be sure that at once we should introduce them only one thing so that we can make out what went wrong.

Always try to select toys without sharp edges, and toys which don't have lead. This make child not only hurts but also make them sick. Try to get teether which is hard at the same time soft. That means this should not hurt the child. Also we should be carefully clean it and keep them separately once use.

There is danger of infection otherwise.

Meaning of Life

Life is like a ocean. One who learn to swim with the help of God can reach the shore. Otherwise will definitely drown in the worldly pleasure.

That is why we need a guru/Teacher who teach us how to swim in the ocean of the life.
Life is not for people who sleep for long and want be successful overnight when they get up ....

Success is not like sunlight which peeps through the window when we get up in the morning....
People who live in dream world cannot be successful...

This life is for people who struggles in the sunny days in the paddy fields, to sow the seeds together and reap the same.

We should try not to make our mind a desert. There will be no creativity then..

Without creativity a man will be equal to the animal. Then there is no use.

One year old baby activities

Most of babies starts crawl when he/she is of 8 months. They are fascinated with dark red and other related colors. Child starts recognize and smiles to their relatively regular friends and parents. Starts tell small words like "Maa" , "paa" etc. They likes people talk to them with eye contacts to theirs. We should start give Potty training at the age of 8 months itself. As a resonsible mother i started doing so when my son is 8 months old. Usually at this stage, we should start give them stacking drums or something like that. This help them to hold things properly. I saw most of the parents with proudly says that their children play with mobile and laptop. I think this is the most dangerous as these things emits lot of harmful radioactive signals which affect the child's growth of the brain.


Usually Baby starts switch over from semisolid to solid food when he/she is of 6 months. But We should give' em milk at lease 5 times a day. Also fruits should be included everyday. Best is seasonal fruits. But we should always add enough fibre to their food. So that digestion will be easy for them. Some children likes different colors in their food. We can add leafy greens for green color, carrot and beet root for orange and red colors respectively.