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Monday, September 6, 2010

Among all love.. Mother's love is supreme...

Today i happen to read about one of my Face book friend's poem about mother.. and happen to see one of my friend's video which shows a boy (He is the lover of the girl) taking care of his friend who is bedridden after she met with an accident..and most beautiful thing about that is.... to nurse her he left his studies..! it inspired me to write this note..

Yesterday i was worried as the new generation is not bother about our culture, values etc.. But after i saw the above mentioned poem and video i felt very happy.. Hopes are not died.. its alive.. I can see the greenery of the face of new hopes.. May god bless all...

Today i wanted to tell about the new corporate hospital culture.. I got taste of it when all my family down with chikungunya.. Every one else recovered after a struggle for 8 to 10 days.. But my mom... Her fever become encephalitis... And we couldn't make out that.. Her internal organs stopped work one by one.. We rushed her to doctor who declared she was in a semiconscious state.. and further told she might be infected with either brain fever or meningitis. He advised us to take her to the nearest superspeciality hospital where she could get best treatment..

Inpite of our tensions and worries, doctors started ask question us as police questions culprits... As i was with mother for 24 hours.. i replied to their all queries.. Inspite of the 1st doctor's suggestion that she had neuro problem.. they have not admitted her in neuro department.. and treated in general health section.. (Later i came to know that their neuro surgens had enough cases hence could not attend my mom's case)After spenting almost 1 lakhs for 1 month.. they expressed their inability to treate my mom anymore.. Till the day of discharge they did not allowed us to see her case sheet.. and what treatment they had given.. we don't know.. She couldn't swallow and she could not speak to us for almost 3 months.. (They put rice tube..)

Then we searched for a good neuro hospital where my mother recoved after another month..Its me and my uncle who taken care of her... She was like a child to me.. I given her bath, and feed her.. Done everything for her.. Whole day she cried loudly because of infection in brain.. I didn't had proper sleep and food in that period.. All our prayers answered after 2 and 1/2 months, she started talk slowly like a baby.. Slowly but steadily she came back to life.. Now she happily with us.. Apart from some small issues.. she is perfectly alright..

Friends, i wanted to say only one thing.. Corporate hospitals are just another hell..

I thank all of you to read this note with patience and also expects your comments.. Please share your experience too.. So that it reduces our burden..Like they say..
"Sorrows become half when it get shared..
Happiness get doubles when it get shared"


Loka Samastha Sukhino Bhavanthu....

Thought of the day

Hey friends.. Here come another week.. working week.. New hopes.. new thoughts and new ideas..

I was thinking about idle mind.. Idle mind is devils workshop.. How i will explain you.. Since nothing is there to think about.. nothing is there to plan about.. the mind wander endlessly.. and get attracted towards wrong things..

This applies to the new generation... The parents struggle a lot to fulfill their child's endless wish list.. Which ultimately lead towards a lazy unproductive generations.. They don't know our ancient culture where children used to respect elders..

I saw a lot youngsters travel sitting in a public transport where very old people travel by standing at the same time.. They don't care is what hurt me... Several time i used to request fellow travellers to give the seat a pregnant lady/patients.

Parenting is a very responsible job.. If we train our children with good manners.. That lead our nation to a new height.. Family is the stepping stone of a nation.

Common friends.. let us take an oath.. That we teach our children to respect old people.. and will never cultivate selfishness in their mind..

Thanks